When Ying Yang came about as one of my categories; I was hesitant on completion, due to a scenario. I hope many of you take notice most blogs are relevant to moments in time of my life. After a long day at the beach, a friend and I had just returned to my place for a cup of coffee. Knowing I had dinner plans with others we haven’t seen this season, the phone rang and he said dinner was early. Be ready in half an hour to be picked up. I told her we could still enjoy a quick cup of java before I hit the shower. Wearing a strange expression: she exclaimed we could do without but, how could I be submissive to a phone call? She would never be as spontaneous for a man. In an instant, my reply was to defend my position as a partner. Quickly she revealed perhaps this was a reason she walked away from previous relationships. I felt it was a compromise; not submission. No power play,no need for one to take control, just go with it…… enjoy dinner with old friends and life goes on. Another day in paradise.